Deja vu

I've just listened to both sides of their stories. I guess I didn't exactly create anything, but triggered an impending explosion. Both have different perspectives of the chain of events and I'm caught in between. To me, it's simply a huge misunderstanding. I suggested for them to sit down and clear it up after they've cooled down. Right now, it looks like a pretty bad time for them to do anything. Anyway, one of them was quite sad that it turned out this way such that they can't be friends anymore. When she said that, it reminded me of what just happened to me. Everything's a misunderstanding. When people cool down, hopefully they'll clear things up. However, this is something that both parties must agree on. It cannot only be one of them trying to clear things up.

She sent him an email to sit down and talk, but he apparently replied her an abrupt message to say that he's not ready to talk. Sighz.. I hope he'll cool down in a week or so to listen to what she has to say..

He called me again. This time he's drunk. He said he didn't wanna talk to her cos he didn't wanna hear what she's going to say. He said that she'll piss him off with her words again. He's going back to his old lifestyle of being an asshole and that there's so much hatred in him. Then he started crying.. I don't know what to do. In the end, I told him that he's drunk and should go home and sleep. Then he started saying that he can't bring the issue home. He's gotta show "positivism" to his son and wife. He sounds pathetic. I don't know what to say. Why am I so stupid? Why can't I understand what people are thinking about??